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By: Maya Oishi
“Okage Sama De: I am what I am because of you” represents the traditions and values passed on by generations of Japanese immigrants in Hawaii. In 1930, my great-great-grandfather Seiichi, an immigrant from Hiroshima, Japan, started a produce shop called Ebesu’s, in the little town of Hilo, Hawaii. My great- grandmother, Kay (Obaachan), alongside her five sisters later took over the family business as it evolved into Ebesugawa Sisters Flower Shop. To the Hilo community, the flower shop was home, where people would buy beautiful flower arrangements in times of celebration but also in times of hardship, allowing the Ebesugawa sisters the opportunity to be a part of everyone’s family. Although I was only eight years-old when the flower shop closed, I am who I am because of Obaachan and her sisters’ love and sacrifice. Their experiences and lessons left an indelible mark on my life and I am forever grateful.
As a child, my Obaachan and aunties taught me about their Japanese culture through little things like how to say “good morning” in Japanese, but they were always adamant on the importance of education, as well as giving back to the community. My great-great-grandfather believed that girls did not have to go to college, so none of the sisters had the opportunity to pursue higher education. Instead they fulfilled their obligations to the family by taking over the family business.
In addition to education, Obaachan and the aunties taught me about caring for the community. In its time, the flower shop was a cornerstone of the Hilo community. The sisters always made an effort to take the extra step to take care of their customers, practicing kindness towards everyone. The sisters provided more than just a flower shop, they became an integral part of the fabric of the community.
Although I am unsure of exactly what my future may hold, one thing I do know is that I will dedicate my path to honoring my family members who sacrificed so much to provide me with a childhood full of love, support and opportunity. In honor of my Obaachan and aunties, I will seek every opportunity to learn at the collegiate level. In appreciation, Okage sama de.
About The Author:
Maya Oishi '26
Business Honors & Marketing
Entrepreneurial LeadHERship Fall 2023 Student
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