Important things to know for finding your place in college

By Sabrina Flores

Learn to get out of your comfort zone!

When one thinks of starting a new chapter in their life not everyone realizes the changes they will have to make when entering college. Part of growing and finding your people in college is learning to get out of your comfort zone. Putting yourself out there can be scary but sometimes it is necessary to do so in order to adapt to new surroundings. Get to know people by asking them questions or inviting them out to get coffee or lunch. You will never know what else is out there if you don’t take a step toward a direction you’ve never been!

Never say No!

Most of us are used to being surrounded by the people we grew up with. However, it is important that we learn to expand our connections and build new friendships with those around us. Part of college is getting to know others who are not from the same background as you. If someone asks you to go with them somewhere or if you would like to study together never say no. Being open to new people and experiences is what ultimately helps us find our people in college. After all, you never know what valuable lessons or experiences you will learn from meeting new people and being open to whatever comes your way.

Explore your interests

College is all about finding your passions and interests. It is important to make the most out of the time that we have when we are in college. Part of taking advantage of our resources is to explore what it is that interests us, whether that be taking new classes, going to new places, trying new foods, hanging out with new people, it could be anything! Exploring what it is that interests you enables you to dive deeper into understanding why it is essential to your development process.

Learn to enjoy your own company!

Sometimes it is hard to be okay with being alone, especially in the midst of being surrounded by others. However, it is important that we take the time to be within our own company. Doing so allows us to get a break from the outside world and helps us develop a sense of self love. Self love is the most important trait that one could ever acquire because when you are content within yourself you have a different perspective over how others view you. Learning to enjoy yourself gives you the opportunity to find new hobbies and learn more about who you are as an individual.